MANY people assume that cellphones are used for voice communication — talking — but in reality texting is becoming the most important means of communication with a mobile handset. Kids in particular communicate through SMS. Text messages connect kids instantly to each other and it’s a private means of communication. Even if parents are in the room, they may not even be aware that texts are being sent or received.
With newer handsets, texting is not just about written communication, it can also include photographs, video or other images. That, coupled with the anytime, anyplace nature of texting results in a private space without boundaries, where fun can transform into abuse in an instant.
“Texts can be used to keep friends close, help parents figure out family logistics, and offer a wonderful way to share experiences. But as with any powerful tool, texting can also be used to bully or humiliate people. An embarrassing or upsetting image or video can quickly be transmitted or uploaded to on online video sharing site like YouTube,” notes Common Sense Media. “Sexting is a form of texting where kids send inappropriate images or sexual messages.
Kids have to know that the abusing the privilege of texting will have consequences. And sadly, the use of texting in school cheating is on the rise as answers can be swiftly passed from student to student.”
Parents need to consider whether kids need texting on their cellphones. Just because “every other kid” is texting doesn’t mean it is right for your child or your family. If your child is allowed to send text messages, write down rules about when texting is acceptable and when it isn’t.
Handsets should definitely be turned off during school hours and at night. Parents should clearly state that they can and will look at a kids’ text messages at any time. To understand the language of texting, just refer to www.netlingo.com/emailsh.cfm.