Saudi women fighting the odds

Author: 
MARIAM NIHAL | ARAB NEWS
Publication Date: 
Wed, 2011-02-23 00:22

Women mainly use shopping malls and cafés for recreation and entertainment purposes in the Kingdom.
While the recent trend in the Kingdom is to build new malls, language centers and Dawa schools and gyms, there is a greater demand from local women for public libraries, art centers, sport facilities and music schools.
Those cultural and recreational needs are served in other Arab countries like the UAE, Bahrain and Qatar.
“Health is a very important life factor. When I lived in the States, every community had a health club and community center where kids could play or women could participate in art and cultural activities,” a P.E. teacher from Jeddah, who did not wish to be identified, told Arab News.
“We can develop more skills and enhance our talents. Arab girls need a platform to show who they really are. Only a few girls can afford high maintenance gyms, which are far more inaccessible than a health center for the community.”
There are scarce centers for children and women to learn painting, cooking, horse riding, music, or other such activities in the Kingdom.
Maintaining physical and mental fitness as well as cardiovascular health is dependent on an active lifestyle.
Inactivity has been linked to type 2 diabetes and certain cancers.
“Men should think about their wives, sisters and children in general. How will you have gold medal winners if you do not have anyone to support and encourage new talent in the country? You never know what you are capable of unless you nurture talent,” a Jeddah university woman professor, who chose to remain anonymous, told Arab News.
According to the World Health Organization, the most important risk factors of non-communicable diseases in Arab countries include high blood pressure, high concentration of cholesterol in the blood, inadequate intake of fruit and vegetables, overweight or obesity, physical inactivity and tobacco use.
Five of these risks are closely related to improper diet and physical inactivity.
Aliyah Qureishi, 21, finds her passion for playing football is wasted.
“I have nowhere to play. Usually women are frowned upon or ridiculed if they want to play a sport traditionally played by men,” she said.
“But I love football and there should be a place for women to pursue our love for sports. Eventually, I make an excuse to go play football with my friends outside, like pretending to go swimming, but if my parents knew the truth they would start hyperventilating.”
Most young women restricted from such activities find a way to beat the odds and take bold risks.
Some women feel it is discrimination, while others blame the rules and norms of society for barricading their way to further accomplishments.
“I wanted to learn the guitar, so I started searching online. I finally found groups online and called up the private tutors to see if they could teach me because there are no music schools here,” a Saudi girl who chose to remain anonymous, told Arab News.
“Of course my mother thought it was ridiculous and my father told me I would be a shame to his family name if I tried to contact a man who could teach me an instrument. I was too scared to pursue my passion, but three years later I felt I had to find out if I was any good at it, so I took my chance and joined up with a group.”
She now learns the guitar with a group of Saudi college students.
“I love it. I wish my family could see this, and be proud. I have to lie that I am going to my girlfriend’s house every time I come for practice. If they find out, it’s over. But then Dalma Rushdi won a gold medal only because she was given a horse to ride.”
Dalma Rushdi H. Malhas was the first Saudi girl to compete at an Olympic event and won a bronze medal in equestrian at the Youth Games held in Singapore last year.
“I empathize with the young women here that have so much hidden talent. Women pioneers are like gold reserves, you need to extract them from the core,” a private male music instructor told Arab News.
“Unfortunately, every factor, be it cultural, traditional, or family related, seems to conspire against them.”

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